Reasons Some Prayers May Seems Unanswered
Some prayers unlock miracles instantly, while others seem to vanish into thin air. But why?
You’ve prayed. You’ve waited. Yet, nothing changes. The silence feels heavy, and doubt creeps in. Maybe God isn’t listening. Maybe I’m not praying enough. Or maybe… I’m praying the wrong way. ‘Reasons Some Prayers May Seems Unanswered.’
It’s important to know that prayer is more than just asking—it’s about connecting with God the right way. Like trying to open a door with the wrong key, many pray with doubt, fear, or routine, missing out on the true essence of prayer. The issue isn’t whether God hears, it’s how we pray.
The First Thing to Know About Prayer
Prayer is not a mere religious activity, it is an invitation into intimacy with God. He wants to hear your voice. He longs to fellowship with you. Just as a loving parent delights in the words of their child, God is eager for your presence.
Imagine a father whose child only talks to him when they need something. No greetings, no affection—just a list of demands. It would hurt, wouldn’t it? Yet, many approach praying to God this way. They don’t see prayer as a way to love and fellowship with Him; they view it as a duty or just a means to make requests. This is where many go wrong.
Mistakes People Make in Prayer
Praying with Doubt Instead of Faith: Many people beg and plead with God as if He is reluctant to bless them. “Lord, please, if it is Your will, help me!” But God’s love is never in question. Jesus said, “Ask, and it shall be given to you; seek, and you shall find” (Matthew 7:7). He delights in blessing His children! We must pray with confidence in His love, not in uncertainty. Mark 11:24.
One-Sided Prayer: Talking But Never Listening: Have you ever been in a conversation where someone does all the talking and never listens? It’s exhausting. Yet, this is how many pray—they rush through their requests and never pause to hear what God has to say. Prayer is not just about speaking; it’s also about listening.
Praying Amiss: Asking for the Wrong Things: James 4:3 says, “You ask and do not receive, because you ask amiss.” Some prayers go unanswered because they are centered on selfish desires rather than God’s will. True prayer aligns your heart with God’s purpose.
How to Pray the Right Way:
Pray with Faith, Knowing God Loves You: Before you pray, settle this in your heart that God loves you and He wants the best for you. Approach Him as a child should approach a loving father—boldly and with expectation.
Make Prayer a Two-Way Conversation: After speaking to God concerning your request, then be still and listen to what He has to say through your spirit. He speaks in different ways—through His Word, through the peace in your heart, and through divine wisdom. Give Him time to respond.
Align Your Prayers with God’s Will: The most powerful prayers are those that align with what God has already promised. Praying the Word guarantees results.
If you’ve ever struggled with knowing how to pray effectively, ‘Praying the Right Way’ by Pastor Chris Oyakhilome is a must-read. This book unveils the principles of powerful prayer, teaching you how to pray in a way that produces results. It will reshape the way you see prayer—not as a ritual but as a powerful, life-changing experience.
When we pray with understanding, knowing God’s love and His will, everything changes. Your prayers will no longer be empty words; they will be filled with power, and you will experience the reality of God’s presence like never before.